Why ‘nice guys finish last’ is a stupid theory

Do you find yourself single, bitter, and among the crew of entitled men who cling to the theory that attempts to comfort you with the pretense that the reason for your first two ailments is you being too nice? Do you find yourself being rejected even though you clearly did a significant amount of nice things for a woman and laid the ground work before getting the courage to ask her out? Do you feel as if all of your niceness has been used up with no goddamn payback? If yes, then I want to help you with a life-transforming fact: it is NOT because you are too nice. It is in fact because of one of several other factors, the most likely and prominent one being that you’re boring. Continue reading